A Single Approach...

Went lunch wif mai bro & a young man 2day...
He was 'sharing' wif us dat his difficulty in... (not dat kind of difficulty..)
Talkin' & approachin' gurlz... (woooo...)
Topic came up bcoz of PM's Rally regardin' singles...
1 thing being single is dat u haf more freedom 2 do wat u want...
U dun haf 2 tink wat de other half would tink...
Dun haf 2 crack ur head juz bcoz u wanna do sumtin...
But, i not sayin' dat bein attached is bad...
Infact, u can be happier when u r wif someone u love...
:)

Anywayz, back 2 de young man...
Both of us(mai bro N i) haf different ways of approachin' ladies...
But we do agree dat de guy haf 2 make de 1st step...
It will show de gurl dat u haf de courage 2 approach her...
But diz guy said he's embarrass lah, afraid lah...
Hiyah, lose face abit only, so wat sia...?
Dat iz if u nvr get de gurl also wat...
Afraid..? Puuhhlleeezzz...
Scared kena gun down by de gurl...?
Well, @ least u try sia... (no regrets later on...)
If u r skillful enuf, u can alwayz shoot back @ her... :)
C'mon, step up.. Be a man.. Do the right thing.. (kahhahaa....)

Personally... (now itz all about me... hahaha...)
I can safely say dat i nvr approach a total stranger before... (as in gurl lah..)
None dat i can tink of... (yeah, rite..)
I shy guy wat... ;)
Coz as a kid... (kid as in 2ndary skool...)
I alwayz thot dat de gurl shuld b de one approachin' de guy...
Hahahahaa... (yah itz true...)
I still can remember de argument i had durin' sec sch regardin diz...
But as i grew older, i knew de guy have 2 make de 1st step...
Coz gurlz juz wouldn't do it... :(
Plus those who do can be pretty........ "scary"...
Wahahahaa... (another story 4 another tyme...)
Now dat i am attached n also grown up way 2 fast....
I tink i can understand de opposite sex betta... (i hope so...)
N maybe, juz maybe, i can go up N approach any gurl...
But I am not gonna do dat... (not doin' it Dear...)
Heheheee...

Have I regretted not approachin' a gurl before..?
(puts maiself on a spotlight...)
Yes, juz diz one gurl... (waaayyy back last tyme...)
Wuz still studyin den... (durin mai 3 mths stint in JC...)
I had 3 blardie clear cut chances 2 talk 2 her...
N yet i did nuthin'...
I guess those are de defining moments in lyf...
Which makes u, who u are today... (for the better...)
:)